I had been dating a man for nearly 2 years and we had made many plans for our future. For most of our relationship, we had been long-distance. He'd taken a job nearer to me than to his home, and I just moved to be near to him as well, having chosen a graduate program in the area. We finally found a church we were excited to attend together and have been attending regularly. Three weeks ago he suggested "taking a break" from dating, and then within the week, called things back on. Then, just this past week, he told me that he no longer had romantic feelings for me. I'm broken-hearted and confused; just a few days before we'd been talking about children, had discussed marriage multiple times, and were close with each others' families. Unfortunately, we had planned to live together, something that was causing us both a lot of spiritual discomfort despite it being a financially agreeable arrangement, but this was something that could have changed, easily, rather than calling off the relationship. I feel in my heart that this breakup was not what God had intended for us. I'm leaning heavily on my church, family, and friends, but the heartache is nearly unbearable. I'm praying for healing and for clarity on the whole situation, because now we are both in the area, attending the same church, and running in the same social circles, and it hurts so badly to want to honor his decision, but to desire more than friendship with a man whom I had thought would be my husband.