I need help in prayers and/or tools/skills with regards to my in-laws who have sabotaged my marriage with the inability to detach from their adult children/ husband unable to detach from them and start a family with me, my in-laws have the inability to socialize and accept others including my side of the family (it’s the my way or highway belief that is carried among my husband’s family). My husband’s family also use their family time/visiting abilities as a weapon of control if their instructions are not followed (sister-in-law takes her children away from my husband and her family if outcomes are not her way for months, weeks, years at a time) and/or manipulation, guilt, pressure, stabs/jabs are used for advantage, along with continued unforgiveness toward me and each other; slander, gossip, accusations (made up beliefs of what someone may do to one-another), bitterness etc. It is a very toxic environment among my in-laws and I ask for the tools and provision to loosen and deliver them and my husband (and myself and my family if need be, bring all things to surface I myself need to work on, be free from, whatever it is) from all roots of generational curses, strongholds, bondages, including spirits that are of haughty, deaf and dumb, slumber, divination, fear, heaviness, jealousy, lying, anti-christ, poverty, bondage, infirmity, whoredom, perversion, demonic and evil spirits that corrupt good character and are not of Jesus, God and his heavenly paradise. I have continually poured my heart out to my in-laws until they began to slander, accuse, assume, control and isolate me, make up lies for no reason about me -- my husband hasn’t protected me even when these occurrences have been in front of him but protects his family and wishes to not talk about what his family does that affects us, him or just myself. I ask to save our families & friends from the fiery pit of eternal darkness and that the gift of open eyes and ears to the TRUTH be given to them, I ask for peace to be spoken into mine, my husbands, our families and our friends pain, anger, whatever is against keeping the heart pure, speak peace into our hearts, to agape love & forgive us all through each other, to save our herd through my husband and I, I ask to give us the provision, tools, skills, to save our family and friends, including our own marriage (still a pending divorce my husband has against me) yet him and I in our home have never been happier. I don’t understand, and I ask for understanding. I still am not working and have no idea what God wants me to do, what is my dream that isn’t derived from the flesh, what is my path. I ask for clarity. I don’t know where to go from here and I’m stagnant.
Thank you in advance for your help, advice, praying for me. I am starting a prayer strategy among all of those I know including the world in general so I can pray over each detail and every aspect that effects mine and others earthly life.