My mom had been having problems for the past two years with dementia, but she's also very fragile, vulnerable, and afraid of my brother (who is her caretaker), He is not a Christian, and any caretaking he does is nominal. He's never had a full time job, he's freeloaded his entire life, he's in deep debt and has lived in a 10x10 room upstairs for the past 25 years. He gives her one meal of fruit and juice in the morning, gives her pills, then disappears for hours. If she hasn't eaten her fruit, he doesn't give her lunch. He does check on her and helps her get in bed for a nap and at nighttime. He makes supper around 5, gives her more pills, but she says he'll make a big crockpot meal and they'll eat it for day on end until he cooks again.
She used to realize he was immature and untrustworthy. He's done several things over the years that have been questionable and a little unstable. He seems to think of himself in an overly important way, and even though he's racked up debt he won't get a humble job to help pay those debt. So, I guess his plan has been to get money through her. She has some real estate and retirement savings. Over the past two years, he's coerced her into changing her will several times, to only his benefit. He is now the trustee and executor of her will. She freezes up any time he enters the room and she is talking to someone else. She is so afraid of displeasing him. Please pray for our family, wisdom, God's will to be done. Thank you!